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Love Lock Down: Deal With A Cheater

It is an awful period in anyone’s life, but it happens all too regularly and often leads to a total breakdown of trust and respect and the eventual end of the relationship. People deal with it in different ways, but there are certain things that need to be done quickly to assert yourself and know you are going to come out of it with your head held high and not conned out of any of your money or possessions. This article can help you, but again, different situations call for different solutions.

 

Make Sure You Are Right

 

Don’t go insulting people and ruining trust by accusing people of doing things they have not done. You need to be totally sure before you accuse them, this means having evidence and the information required to back up your accusation. You can do this by hiring a private detective, getting the evidence yourself or using one of the many spy apps for cheating spouses. Be absolutely sure before confrontation. Follow them, look out for irregular habits and excuses, be weary. Once you have got what you need you can confront them and get the issue out on the open so that you can move onto the next phase of your life.

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Decide What You Want To Do

 

You now need to make your decision. It may be made for you, but usually cheaters will be remorseful and want to make things better. Affairs are never really recovered from, as the issue remains forever in the background. You need to dig deep and make the decision that is right for you and not for your partner. Speak to friends and family if you feel alone and don’t go back easy and to open arms, you’ll look weak. Advice can go a long way, but don’t follow it blindly, do what you feel is right.

 

Get A Lawyer ASAP

 

If you decide to leave and are married, you need to get a lawyer as soon as you can. Take the evidence you have to them and they can help the divorce proceedings land in your favour. It can be a horrible few months if your claims are contested and you need to go to court to prove it. You need to stand up for yourself so that you can claim what is yours and leave with a fair end of the bargain. The split will always come down your favour if it is clear that your partner was having an affair, so try not to worry too much about it and don’t be surprised if the opposition try to disparage you in the courtroom.

 

Seek Emotional Help

 

Afterwards you may feel broken and hurt, so if it is really bothering you consider seeking help from a psychiatrist. They can root out the issues and help you feel better about yourself and in turn set you down a path to a better you that can get over the past issues and look for a better future on the horizon.

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