Do you have a feeling your marriage is beyond repair, or heading that way? It’s always sad when a big relationship ends. However, that doesn’t mean you should cling on to something that clearly isn’t working. Look at the following signs to figure out if your marriage has gone past the point of no return:
You Can’t Really Be Bothered Anymore
Maybe the simple fact is you can’t be bothered to work on this relationship anymore. All relationships can be hard work. There’s no doubt about that. However, if you’ve given this one chance after chance, and spent a long time trying to repair it only to have it blow up in your face, it could well be beyond repair. There’s only so many times you can forgive a person, argue about a certain subject, and go over the same things again and again.
Relationships are a two way street. If you both can’t be bothered to work on it, then your marriage could be over. However, you should be sure you gave it a good chance before you call it quits. At least that way you can’t say you didn’t try! You don’t want to spend the rest of your life wondering ‘what if…?’
You And Your Partner Just Can’t See Eye To Eye
Do you and your partner disagree on many different things? A relationship is all about compromise, so if you can’t agree on anything, then it could be a sign your marriage isn’t going to last much longer. If one of you isn’t willing to compromise, then it isn’t a good sign for your relationship.
A relationship isn’t about sacrificing what you want to make your partner happy. It’s about coming up with a solution that makes you both happy!
There’s No Trust
A relationship needs to have trust. If you don’t have trust, then you don’t have much at all. Maybe your partner is constantly questioning you about where you’ve been, or you feel like your partner is cheating on you. This could be a sign of deeper issues and insecurities, rather than something with your partner. However, if you have evidence to suggest that they aren’t being faithful, you may need to contact a divorce lawyer from IRB Law to help you figure out the steps to take.
You Can Only Focus On The Bad Stuff
At one time or another, there would have been lots of different things you liked about your partner. It’s normal after being together for a number of years for some of those things to become less endearing, annoying even! However, if you can only focus on the bad about your partner, maybe it’s time you moved on. It can take a lot of effort to focus on the things you like about them, but a change in attitude and mindset can make all the difference. If you’re not willing to do this, then calling it a day is probably the best idea.
Thanks for reading.