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    Getting Help With A Divorce

    Going through a divorce is always going to be one of the most disheartening situations you can be in, and it is the kind of thing that usually requires some kind of help and assistance from others. Going it alone is unlikely to get you very fair, and you will probably only become more and more upset as a result of approaching things in this way. As it happens, the help that you will need is always going to be there as long as you know how to look for it, and that is important to remember if you are keen on ensuring you can get through the situation in tact. In this post, we are going to take a look at the kinds of help you might want to seek out, and how to make sure that you’re actually seeking it when you need it. That should help you to get through the situation you are currently in without too much trouble.

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    Legal Help

     

    Sometimes all you really need is someone to help you with some of the legal side of things, which can often be about the most confusing and troublesome side of things there are. It might be for instance that you are needing to think about the custody of your children – likely a huge concern if you are getting divorced and you have kids – and probably you will want to make sure you are in the best position possible to hopefully keep fair custody of your children. Having the right help in the form of lawyers and child support can absolutely make a huge difference here, so make sure that you seek that out as best as you can. You will find it really does make all the difference to how the situation pans out.

     

    Friends

     

    Sometimes it is much more about just having the support you need from your friends, and when that is the case you should not be afraid to ask for it. If you have the kind of friends you need, they will likely be happy to support you as you need them to when you need them to, so this is something to be glad of and to make use of if that is the case. Your friends will help you to emotionally understand the situation that is going on, and will be likely to offer you the kind of emotional support which you need to actually get through the situation, so it is important to make sure that you are making use of that kind of assistance as best as you can and wherever necessary.

     

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    Counsellor

    It is very common for those going through a divorce to need some form of counselling, and if you feel that you might benefit from that, then you should not delay in finding one who you are likely to be able to get use out of. The right counsellor can help you to get through your divorce much more easily, and it will mean that you can actually understand what is going on much more thoroughly and easily as a result too. Make sure you are getting this kind of help should you need it, and that you don’t simply overlook your own mental health or mark it off as unimportant.

    marriage

    Getting Help With A Divorce

    Going through a divorce is always going to be one of the most disheartening situations you can be in, and it is the kind of thing that usually requires some kind of help and assistance from others. Going it alone is unlikely to get you very fair, and you will probably only become more and more upset as a result of approaching things in this way. As it happens, the help that you will need is always going to be there as long as you know how to look for it, and that is important to remember if you are keen on ensuring you can get through the situation in tact. In this post, we are going to take a look at the kinds of help you might want to seek out, and how to make sure that you’re actually seeking it when you need it. That should help you to get through the situation you are currently in without too much trouble.

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    Legal Help

     

    Sometimes all you really need is someone to help you with some of the legal side of things, which can often be about the most confusing and troublesome side of things there are. It might be for instance that you are needing to think about the custody of your children – likely a huge concern if you are getting divorced and you have kids – and probably you will want to make sure you are in the best position possible to hopefully keep fair custody of your children. Having the right help in the form of lawyers and child support can absolutely make a huge difference here, so make sure that you seek that out as best as you can. You will find it really does make all the difference to how the situation pans out.

     

    Friends

     

    Sometimes it is much more about just having the support you need from your friends, and when that is the case you should not be afraid to ask for it. If you have the kind of friends you need, they will likely be happy to support you as you need them to when you need them to, so this is something to be glad of and to make use of if that is the case. Your friends will help you to emotionally understand the situation that is going on, and will be likely to offer you the kind of emotional support which you need to actually get through the situation, so it is important to make sure that you are making use of that kind of assistance as best as you can and wherever necessary.

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    Counsellor

    It is very common for those going through a divorce to need some form of counselling, and if you feel that you might benefit from that, then you should not delay in finding one who you are likely to be able to get use out of. The right counsellor can help you to get through your divorce much more easily, and it will mean that you can actually understand what is going on much more thoroughly and easily as a result too. Make sure you are getting this kind of help should you need it, and that you don’t simply overlook your own mental health or mark it off as unimportant.

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    Is There Such a Thing as a Positive Divorce?

    If you’re about to enter divorce proceedings, you might be wondering how you can make this divorce as quick and painless as it can be. When both parties are looking to get things done quickly and no one is making demands that are regarded as unreasonable by the other person, it is possible to split in a smoother way. But can we really call this a positive divorce?

     

    Sometimes, Separating Can be Best for Everyone Involved

     

    It’s not always a good idea to persist with a relationship that both people feel has run its course. In fact, it can be sometimes be very damaging to the people involved if you take that route forward. You will only make your own life more difficult and stop you from living the life you want to live. Sometimes, it’s just best for everyone to accept that it’s over and move on for the good of everyone.

     

    Uncontested Divorces Are Always Less Bitter

     

    If you decide to go through an uncontested divorce, it should be a lot less bitter than a contested one. It means that you’re able to keep things calm and avoid the arguing that we so often associated with divorces. If you both agree that this is the best kind of divorce for you, it could really help to keep things how they should be and avoid nastiness taking hold.

     

    Where Kids Are Involved, A Smooth Separation is Preferable

     

    When you have kids to think about a smooth separation is definitely what everyone should be working towards. You’re only going to make life more difficult for your child if you put them through a drawn out row between their parents. So if positive divorces do exist, they often take place because both of the people involved see that the child they share is what’s most important. It’s the right way to handle a difficult situation. One way to make things smoother is to get a lawyer who can help you with any problems. There are loads of different lawyers that you could use depending on your situation. For example, you might decide that it’s best to use a men’s divorce lawyer (as sometimes Men find it harder to get custody of the children, as women have traditionally been more favored in that role).

     

    Things Can Still Get a Little Messy

     

    Even when both of the people involved have committed to dealing with the divorce in a productive and respectful way, things can sometimes still get a little messy at times. That’s just the way divorces often go. You should be prepared for minor arguments and points of contention because even the most positive and clean divorces aren’t entirely clean or positive. You can and should try to make them as clean as they possibly can be though.

     

    Feelings Will Always Get in the Way to Some Extent

     

    Feelings are messy, and there are plenty of feelings floating around when you’re getting divorced. These can often get in the way and prevent a smooth and positive divorce from playing out, so you need to do what you can to keep those feelings in check.

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    There definitely is such a thing as a positive divorce, especially when you look at how messy and nasty some divorces can get. But you should never underestimate the pain that comes with splitting from someone who you thought you would spend the rest of your life with at one point.

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    Review: Mazda MX-5 Grand Touring

    Thanks to Mazda I was provided the 2019 Mazda MX-5 Grand Touring to test drive. As always, all opinions are my own.

    Last month me and my husband celebrated our eleven year anniversary. We didn’t leave NYC we stayed local and decided to make it a date night. To celebrate we got to test out the 2019 Mazda Miata Grand Touring model. My husband wondered if we would be installing a supercharger, of course I declined that offer. This car is kid free proof,even though they wanted to come but it’s only a 2 seater (sorry kids). My 7 year old son said Mommy why drive such a small car like this. Because the car is so small it takes some getting use to but once you get over how everything around you is so big it’s smooth sailing.

    We went to the Hip Hop Restaurant Beatstro which is a great restaurant for comfort food with a hip hop vibe (so glad we no longer have to travel to Manhattan for great food).

    What makes this car so special that my husband loves is the sports car feel and the retractable rooftop. We took the car around the Bronx and received many compliments.

     

    Some of the specs include:

    • Push Button ignition
    • BOSE AM/FM 9 Speaker
    • 7″ Color touch-screen display
    • Advanced keyless entry system
    • Heated front seats
    • Rearview Camera

    The price point of the Mazda MX-5 Grand Touring comes in at $34,410 (amazing price)!

    For more details on the new 2019 Mazda MX-5 visit MazdaUSA.com

     

     

     

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    The 4 Elements Of The Perfect Proposal

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    Proposals are always exciting, regardless of the outcome! Many people get proposed to every day, but what sets the best proposals apart from the rest? For me, you can break it down into four separate elements.

    The Timing

    Timing a proposal is so important. The last thing you want is to get the timing wrong and ask at the worst time possible. For example, if you’ve been in a relationship for a few weeks, then the timing probably isn’t right. Likewise, no one wants to be proposed to in the middle of an argument or during a particularly bad event. As an extreme example; don’t propose at a funeral, or at someone else’s wedding. If the timing is right, then the whole proposal feels so perfect.

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    The Ring

    Naturally, the engagement ring takes center stage during a proposal. For me, getting the right ring is a sign that the two of you understand one another and that the person proposing actually listens to you. If you drop hints that you love a certain ring and they get the complete opposite, then it is a bit of a let down as you feel like they don’t care. There’s no way of saying what the perfect ring is, it depends on the person. As it shows on the 77 Diamonds website, yellow gold and emerald cut rings are in fashion right now, but that doesn’t mean it’s the perfect ring for you. Spend time thinking about what you like best, make sure your partner knows, and hopefully, they get it for you.

    The Setting

    If the time is right, and the ring is amazing, then the next thing that comes into play is the setting. Certain proposals seem extra special as they take place somewhere that’s special to the couple. Just because someone proposed to their partner in a five-star hotel suite and it was super romantic, that doesn’t mean it’ll be romantic for you guys. Perhaps your idea of the perfect setting is the scene of your first date? For others, it could be in a very romantic place like Paris or Venice. Do I think anyone likes being proposed to in a restaurant in front of other diners? Not particularly, no. The setting can make or break the proposal, it’s vital!


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    The Speech

    Finally, it all comes down to the proposal speech. The words that are said as the proposal happens will really dictate how good it is. You want to feel the love pour from your partner’s mouth as they talk about all the reasons they love you and why they want to spend the rest of their life with you. If they just get down on one knee and say ‘will you marry me?’ then it doesn’t seem like much thought was put into it.

     

    If you’re already married, and you’re still reading this, then did your proposal have all of these elements? You said yes, so I’m willing to bet it did! If you’re not married, but a proposal is on the cards, then subtly show your partner this blog post so they know how to make it as special as can be.