Nobody takes their vows thinking about watching their loved one battle a serious mental or physical illness. Your wedding day should be the happiest day of your life. But a marriage isn’t built on a day, a week, or a year. Partnerships are designed to last. Although we may not like to think about it, there may come a day when we need to support and help our soul mate through poor health. If you’re caring for your spouse, here are some tips to help you cope.


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Physical health problems

There are hundreds of different illnesses and diseases out there and at some point, most of us fall foul to ailments of some kind. In many cases, it’s possible to treat illnesses and move forwards. But in some cases, recovery may not be possible, or it may take a long time. If your partner has been diagnosed with a serious health condition, it can be tough to stay strong and think positively. You may feel like the world has come crashing down around you. You may struggle to offer strength and support when you feel weak yourself.


Physical illnesses, such as cancer, heart disease or musculoskeletal conditions can have far-reaching implications. You may have to say goodbye to an active social life, or give up a shared love of sport or traveling for a while. The future may suddenly seem much bleaker. But there is almost always hope. Medical treatments are incredibly advanced these days, and there are cures for many different types of disease. In cases where the prognosis is not so good, try and focus on the time you have and make every moment special.


Mental health issues

Mental health issues are something of a taboo subject in society. They are poorly understood, and many people feel uncomfortable talking about psychological illnesses. There are many different forms of mental health problems. Examples include addictions, anxiety, depression and psychosis. If you’re not familiar with mental diseases, it can be tough to get your head around what your partner is feeling and why they feel this way.

It’s probably impossible for you to cure your partner’s mental health problems. But you can be there for them and support them through therapy, taking medication or undergoing drug addiction treatment. Try and do some research to find out more. Lend a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen.


Supporting a loved one through ill health and tough times can be physically and mentally draining. Sometimes, you may need a break or a little TLC. Don’t be afraid to ask for help if you’re struggling, or to turn to friends and family for advice. There are also some excellent charities out there that can offer guidance and emotional support.



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Unfortunately, none of us are immune to poor health. If your partner is battling illness, try your best to be there for them and encourage and support them. Ensure that they know you’re there to care for them, look after them or simply listen to them. Try and remain positive, and don’t be afraid to seek help.