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Don’t Let That Scar Leave A Permanent Mark On Your Confidence

An accident of any kind can change our life in more ways than the majority of us realize. Even short-term injuries often leave us unable to work and struggling to get by financially. When your injury has lasting implications, the impact it creates only becomes more severe. It may be that you’re left with a limp for instance. Or, as we’re going to focus on here, you might be left with a scar.

A visible scar as a result of an injury can impact your life in a whole host of ways. It can bring the most confident of people to their knees. In extreme cases, it could even lead to issues such as agoraphobia and anxiety. Not to mention the fact that you may start avoiding looking in the mirror. That could leave you at odds with your body, and that’s never a positive thing.

In a world where self-love is a focus, you don’t need us to tell you that feeling comfortable with the way you look matters. The moment a visible scar jeopardises that, your mental state could soon plummet. You may start experiencing feelings of worthlessness. You may even become so low in confidence that you stop approaching potential partners or any new people. In short; a scar can ruin your life if you let it.

That’s why we’re here to show you a way around that reality. If you’re reading this because you have a scar yourself, life dealt you a shitty hand. Don’t make that worse than it needs to be by continuing with these negative thought patterns. Instead, keep reading to find out how you can bring your confidence back up to its pre-accident levels.

Do what you need to feel comfortable

First, it’s important to note that you should do whatever you can to feel comfortable in your appearance again. As much as we focus on self-love, we also put a lot of pressure on this idea of ‘accepting’ ourselves. In truth, though, accepting a scar isn’t easy, especially to begin with. If using foundation to reduce visibility makes you feel better, then you shouldn’t hesitate to do it. If you feel more comfortable in clothes which hide the worst, buy more items like that. If the scarring is so severe that your doctor offers you skin grafts, don’t refuse from some place of morality. Accept any help which can get you back on your feet. It may even be worth actively pursuing treatments like these by seeking financial compensation for whatever happened with attorneys like those found at There are always going to be haters who state you should ‘love yourself as you are’. But, they don’t live in your skin. Whatever helps put that smile back on your face is worth pursuing, even it doesn’t mean bearing your scars for the world to see.


Don’t avoid looking in the mirror

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When something impacts our appearance, we often avoid looking in the mirror. If we don’t see it, we can pretend it isn’t happening. But, this is a terrible method in the long-term, and that scar isn’t going anywhere. The longer you spend not looking in the mirror, the less you’ll love your body on the whole. You certainly won’t be able to come to terms with your scarring if you never face it head-on. It won’t be easy, but you need to make a conscious effort to look in the mirror. ‘Mirror time’ is one of the best ways to promote self-love at any time. When you add a scar into the mix, this time becomes even more crucial. The moment you start looking at yourself on a regular basis, you may see that your scar isn’t as bad as you’re imagining. Over time, your new reflection will become so familiar to you that you may not even notice anything untoward. When that happens, you’ll notice that you stop feeling half as self-conscious. One day, you’ll be out and about without once thinking about your scar. Before you know, you’ll be strutting your stuff and feeling as confident as you did before all this happened.


Realize that confidence isn’t only skin deep


It may sound like a cliche, but as can be seen from sites like, confidence isn’t only skin deep. There’s never been a better time for you to realize that than now. You’re unlucky in that your body has changed in a significant way within a moment. But, everyone’s bodies change as they age. Someone who’s got flawless skin and glossy hair will end up with wrinkles and hair thinning later on. In that sense, we’re all the same. Once you see that, you’ll see how confidence which comes from within is the only type which matters. In many ways, our internal confidence levels themselves are what make us beautiful. When we hold our heads high and our postures open, we look better to everyone. So, practice gaining confidence which isn’t skin deep. Find your inner strength, and learn to value things like your mind and your sense of humor. No matter how hard it tries, you scar can’t mark these things in the slightest. You’ll remain looking beautiful no matter what.

Surround yourself with the right people

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When something like this happens, you’ll see more than ever how important it is to have the right people around. At this time in your life, you shouldn’t make room for that friend who ‘tells it how it is’. If someone puts you down or makes negative comments about your scar, it’s past time you shut them out of your life. Instead, surround yourself with people who don’t seem to see that scar at all. Spend time with friends who tell you’re beautiful. Date people who can’t stop looking at you in a good way. When the people around us see our beauty, it can help us shine no matter what. If you get this right, no scar in the world could stop you from looking your best.

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